pasted on skin tight pants!

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BEattitude said:
How do you know how hookers dress?
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because I recall what 42nd street in NYC looked like before the Mayor cleaned it up…🙂
and no I did not frequent this area…but you had to drive through it to get to certain areas!
 
Marilena said:
lets be charitable her folks. what has or has not happened in beats life is not our business. lets not stir up things we ought not to be doing.
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Marilena… Despite what the others may think or say, i must say that they are the ones acting ridiculously childish! This is my point and cant see where they get these ideas. The woman should not dress like that, the men should not look at her like that. i would have handled it differntly! now im a childish man hating anti catholic trouble maker!:eek: :eek: :eek:
Let them think what they want. I already apologized for misinterpretting what you said or did. so whats the beef? you all need to get over yourselves!
 
Marilena said:
people only sit in the upper balcony when the seats down below are too full. i don’t think she went to communion because father would’ve likely saw her. oh no, there are more than mine believe me, but they don’t post on CAF, i do.
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Are you ASSUMING that is why she was sitting in the rafters? Or do you know for FACT that is why she was sitting in the rafters?

To be honest, Marilena I don’t know what you did is right or wrong, because I don’t have the other side of the story (the women’s side)

I know that was she was wearing was not “right”, but at the same time I don’t know why she was wearing it.

Would the woman’s reasoning make it “right”?
No, but her reasoning could lessen or graven the matter.
 
BEattitude said:
Ecce_homo;1841786:
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Welcome to my ignore, I suggest you do the same for me, for what it’s worth several others agree that you are in the forum to stir up trouble, it isn’t just me…
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oh so you know what im thinking and know what others are thinking too! must be nice to have those superpowers
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He’s not to far off, it sure seems you have. You know there are other places to post here. A few post and you condemn someone for actions that want to respect God. You seem to respect humans more than God in your post.

This is the Traditional Catholic forum were we talk about traditional stuff, not the new liberalism that is sweeping all the churches that includes dressing.
 
Ecce_homo said:
Edited after a second thought…

Welcome to my ignore, I suggest you do the same for me, for what it’s worth several others agree that you are in the forum to stir up trouble, it isn’t just me…
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[SIGN]Amen. [/SIGN] You are just stating the obvious, my friend.
 
historyb said:
He’s not to far off, it sure seems you have. You know there are other places to post here. A few post and you condemn someone for actions that want to respect God. You seem to respect humans more than God in your post.

This is the Traditional Catholic forum were we talk about traditional stuff, not the new liberalism that is sweeping all the churches that includes dressing.
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Wrong again. look at my post above!
 
paramedicgirl said:
A liberal Catholic can do whatever they please. It’s called the spirit of Vatican II. :rolleyes:
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Ecce_homo said:
IEnough with the semantics I think even an Amish person could understand the phrase “dressing like a prostitute” (notice not “she is a prostistute”) even had they never seen one. Just admit you’re here to rile people up on the Traditional Catholic forum and be done with it already.
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Lucania said:
Paramedicgirl, I totally agree with your post. After reading through these 6 pages it’s obvious that some posters didn’t read the original post! Having said that, I also agree that Marilena did nothing wrong. Marilena, you don’t have to keep defending yourself!:banghead:
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[sign]AMEN!![/sign]
Ecce_homo said:
Edited after a second thought…

Welcome to my ignore, I suggest you do the same for me, for what it’s worth several others agree that you are in the forum to stir up trouble, it isn’t just me…
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anamchara said:
There is no dress code as far I as know coming to Mass.
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Dead give away you did not read the OP’s posts…There is a dress code at the OP’s CHurch and it is even posted!!!
 
Julianna said:
At my Baptist grandmother’s church, yes, that was the rule, suit and tie. And I could not wear pants, at all, and my dress had to be past my knee. At my high school (boyfriend) church, Pentacostal, I could not wear any make-up or perfume, I had to wear a dress, down past my knees, no high heels, and my hair was long, but I had to put it in a long loose ponytail in the back, no earrings. No drinking, no dancing, no rock music allowed.

Yep, the Catholic church was for me, for sure! God knew what he was doing.

I have now, at age 48, have discovered, on this very board, that certain churches, Catholic, have dress codes. Go figure. Someone, please let me know when drinking and dancing at weddings or anywehre else is abolished…and rock music. I have all the original Led Zeppelin, Rolling Stones, Aerosmith, Beatles, The Who, U2 albums…and I will need to know if I will need to bury them somewhere. 😃

:confused: I’m home sick today, and the cold medicine has just kicked in.😉
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Really, when you think about it, isn’t it nice that we have choices. I think that some people don’t understand that Marilina’s church has a set of rules for dress and they are judging her post by their own experiences in their own church. As long as the OP’s church respects other churches’ decision not to be so conservative, I am uncertain why anyone wouldn’t respect Marilina’s church’s right to a dress code.(I hope that made sense, I am drugged up on cold medicine)

I hope that you feel better. Everyone in my home is sick today, so we are taking a break from homeschooling which is why I am on the computer so much today.
 
anamchara said:
No they can’t and they are just as respectful as anyone else entering Church. This women spoke a different language so obviously is from a different cultural, lets give her a break. There is no dress code as far I as know coming to Mass. The side to this is from what I read in the OP, she tired to demostrate the proper way to dress when going to Mass by using a skirt and head covering? That is a very traditional way to dress, I don’t have problems with it but for heavens sake it’s not the only way.
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At the SSPX chapel where this took place, it IS the only way to dress. They are very strict there. If an usher had seen this lady, he would have removed her. I have been there before. I know how strict their dress code is.
 
fix said:
The same right you used here to judge other’s posts. There is no sin in judging words and actions. Choosing to dress immodestly is wrong. How culpable she is we cannot say, but dressing that way in those circumstances is not right. The woman was gently corrected. Not only is that not sinful, but it may very well be an act of mercy. She may have helped open the woman’s eyes to things she missed before.
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I never said correcting this women was sinful, you didn’t read my post correctly. It did remind me of the scripture, read that however you want.

I am pointing out it’s wrong to correct and judge how people come to Christ. Thank God she came and maybe after going over time she will catch on. That one correction might have lost a soul my friend, I don’t care how gently it was said.
 
BEattitude said:
Wrong again. look at my post above!
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So far 90 percent of your post in this thread have you acting Holier than thou. You started trouble from your first post in this thread. Making it seem you came here just to try and cause trouble so that our new forum will get shutdown faster.
 
Ecce_homo said:
I live in Brooklyn and take the ‘D’ train to 42nd Street to go to work… 😃

Enough with the semantics I think even an Amish person could understand the phrase “dressing like a prostitute” (notice not “she is a prostistute”) even had they never seen one. Just admit you’re here to rile people up on the Traditional Catholic forum and be done with it already.
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Got that crystal ball out now, do ya? Be has an opinion on the subject, just as you do. The thread was posted to get a response, correct? So, should all the responses proceed in lock-step with hard core traditionalists? As some one aptly pointed out…(netli(name removed by moderator), I believe)…this is a discussion board…BE gave her opinion…you disagree…how about letting go of that bone for minute…you’ll feel better.

Living in New York, you must have missed the news report when the Mayflower Madam got busted. I don’t recall her girls wearing any “hooker pants”…to me they looked like Donna Karan or Vera Wang dresses, with a few Armanis thrown in for measure. They are prostitutes just the same. But if one of the women walked in your church, you would have been none the wiser. And the Pharisees, thought John the Baptist was a raving lunatic the way he dressed and lived in the woods. Go figure.

It is not the traditionalists on non traditional thinking that gets folks on these boards in hot water…it’s the EXTREMIST positions they take, they send the thread spiralling out of control. Think about it.
 
anamchara said:
I am pointing out it’s wrong to correct and judge how people come to Christ. Thank God she came and maybe after going over time she will catch on. That one correction might have lost a soul my friend, I don’t care how gently it was said.
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I think it’s inexcusable to claim Marilena’s charitable polite correction is now responsible for the damnation of hot pants Mcgee’s soul…

If this women is too prideful to come back because she can’t wear her hotpants that has nothing to do with Marilena.

I’ve worked as an usher and had to tell some men (again I don’t tell the women I let the Pastor handle it) to not to come to Church wearing tank tops, or to remove their baseball caps, most take it O.K. some get huffy and indignant, I don’t care either way, they’ll either accept it for simple correction it was, or wallow in their pride, either way it’s not Marilena’s fault for doing what is commanded of her as a Christian. Winning souls doesn’t = selling our religion out.
 
Marilena said:
There is a dress code in all SSPX chapels.
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I see, I sit corrected, I still say I wouldn’t have corrected her…she would have caught on, or maybe the priest at some point could have talk to her if she decided to make that her home 🙂 Just my opinion Marilena.
 
Marilena said:
no one can blame me if she does not come back. she is a visitor so likely wont. if she does, she knows the dress code now. iam not at fault if she does not come back. i was not rude nor did i do anything wrong or out of line. if i had, the priest would’ve reprimanded me believe me.
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whoa,…didn’t say it was your fault…clarity…here…she would be too embarrassed to return…Marilena…it’s ok…not worth a stroke…these are anonymous people posting on these boards…you don’t feed, clothe, or pay their bills…

you brought the subject forward, solicited responses…and this is what happened…let it go hon…we are not worth it…your priest is going to handle it…your church does things their way…mine does things differently…

Ecc and BE are two sides of a spectrum, let 'em go at it…and sit this one out.😃
 
Julianna said:
Got that crystal ball out now, do ya? .
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Who needs a crystal ball when there’s been like five people POSTING in agreeance?

BE can have whatever opinion she likes, I’m free to call a spade a spade, ain’t freedom of speech great? You feel perfectly comfortable calling me to the carpet. I haven’t insulted be so far she’s called me jaded and a horses ***.

Anyway let it go I already have her on ignore, no reason to add fuel to the fire.
 
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