Good morning Leeann
I wanted you to know, that I really am praying for you. Not that you’ll become Catholic or that you’ll stop believing in Jesus with the passion you’ve demonstrated…but that you might find a peace with your friends and their devotion to the blessed mother

I really am, and will continue to do so, and I think there are others here who are doing the same! God bless you for coming to these forums… I can speak from experience when I say that they truly helped me at one point, to find peace about my own questions.
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You commented a moment ago that the Catholic Church doesn't revere John the Baptist the way we do Mary.... And you would be partly right. Mary holds a special position because of the significance of everything God did for her. John the Baptist, is also a part of the communion of saints, however. We may, and do, pray for his intercession just as we may pray for Peter, Paul, St. Joseph and all the others to pray for us:) This however would get into the subject of the communion of saints, and I really think if you'd like to learn about it, is very worthy of its own thread.
That aside... I had a thought this morning I would like to share with you.
I have been trying to make more time to pray the rosary, and though I don’t always get to as much as I’d like… I do still
think about the prayers through the busy day. When somebody prays a rosary, you hear the hail mary’s, our father’s, glory be’s…but what you don’t hear is the meditation of the rosary. The meditations are centered on the life of Christ, and it is the greatest, most powerful prayers because it puts you right THERE with our Lord! When I first began praying the rosary, I had an experience that I can credit to none other than the Holy Spirit working through this amazing prayer. I was meditating on the joyful mysteries, and had just started the nativity. As I prayed to Mary, and focused on the Child Christ in her arms… I was moved beyond words! Right there in the pew, it was as if God had made this scene more real than anything else around me. I felt that I could literally reach out and stroke the baby’s cheek. And as I concentrated on all of this, one other thing stood out so clearly to me. I looked at Mary…and there I saw her full of love, pride, awe, wonder and amazement! I will never get that scene out of my mind…God’s son, cradled in the arms of our mother.
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Remembering the rosary, got me to thinking about the sorrowful mysteries. I always have such a hard time praying these...because it brings me to tears to meditate on the passion of our Lord. I've been guilty of avoiding these mysteries, because I can't bear to truly meditate on the reality of His pain, suffering, and death. Then I realized something.... Jesus gave us His mother, so that we could focus on Him!
I would like to share a story with you…
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Imagine yourself, at the foot of the cross. There is our Lord, broken, beaten, pouring out His blood for us! You are overwhelmed with love and you just want to reach out to Him! To take Him down from the cross, heal His wounds and comfort Him! But you can't.. you are powerless.. You stand amid the crowd, and reach out your arms.. But Jesus can't reach back. All He can do is gaze at you, with His beautiful, loving eyes. What do you do? You could fall down and weep! And then...while you are kneeling, weeping...you feel a hand on your shoulder. Is it Jesus? You turn.. And there, is Mary. She puts her arms around you, and you weep together! She holds your hand at the foot of the cross while you stand together at your savior's feet. The woman who cradled Him as a child, raised Him with love, and the woman who stood by Him even to His death... She now holds you in her arms and points you to Her son.
And then…as the two of you gaze up at our Lord, he looks at you once more, His eyes still full of love. He utters to Mary “Behold, your son.” And then to you, as you continue to weep while Mary hold’s your hand… “Behold, your mother.”
This is why Mary is so imortant to us! She was a part of the “gospel message” that Christ came to give us… She is there throughout the Bible, obeying God, teaching us to obey her son, and sharing the love of her son with all of us. Why did God choose to give us Mary? Why is she even in the Bible? He could have given us Jesus, already a man, and skipped the whole virgin birth. But He chose her for a reason! God knows our hearts even better than we know our own…and he gave us Mary, so that we could focus on Christ
So… if the pope was standing at the foot of the cross, weeping for our Lord… Who would he turn to for comfort? Who would put her arms around him and point to her son as they weep together? Mary.