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The ladies on this thread really do need to chill out. Madaglan is clearly speaking from a uniquely male perspective in language that guys all understand. Indeed, I’ve found some of his off the cuff quip backs to be hilarious.
Let’s be honest, men are enticed by the visual. everybody knows that! As such, physical attraction is, at some level, initially important. A guy just isn’t going to marry a gal who he considers ugly (however he defines that).
Among men, then, it’s no big deal to discuss the physical attributes of women. It’s not a matter of making females into a meat market, but simply acknowledging what they find attractive and an appreciation of beauty.
For example, a friend of mine frequently talks about how he finds dark skinned Southern European and middle Eastern women attractive. I, in turn, joke about the “pretty Polish girl with long auburn hair” who I “go to Mass to look at”.
But no guy is saying that personality or faith or what have you doesn’t matter. Nor that they would stop loving a spouse as she aged and gained weight. Or even that he would never date anybody who doesn’t fit the “perfect description”.
Rather, it’s sort of like looking at art and acknowledging what one’s tastes are, or what a fine creation the Artist has wrought. A “dream girl” is just that: a concept which envisions that which someone might consider physically beautiful. Or that which “does something for him”. It’s an honest refection which creates an idealized fantasy, not necessarily a realistic expectation.
Let’s be honest, men are enticed by the visual. everybody knows that! As such, physical attraction is, at some level, initially important. A guy just isn’t going to marry a gal who he considers ugly (however he defines that).
Among men, then, it’s no big deal to discuss the physical attributes of women. It’s not a matter of making females into a meat market, but simply acknowledging what they find attractive and an appreciation of beauty.
For example, a friend of mine frequently talks about how he finds dark skinned Southern European and middle Eastern women attractive. I, in turn, joke about the “pretty Polish girl with long auburn hair” who I “go to Mass to look at”.
But no guy is saying that personality or faith or what have you doesn’t matter. Nor that they would stop loving a spouse as she aged and gained weight. Or even that he would never date anybody who doesn’t fit the “perfect description”.
Rather, it’s sort of like looking at art and acknowledging what one’s tastes are, or what a fine creation the Artist has wrought. A “dream girl” is just that: a concept which envisions that which someone might consider physically beautiful. Or that which “does something for him”. It’s an honest refection which creates an idealized fantasy, not necessarily a realistic expectation.