Where to find a good man

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A single sub-forum could easily be set up, but I bet it would not take off. Maybe. I don’t see what is wrong with CM.

I really have come to believe that a person needs to make an effort, sure, and use their brain, and pray, but it is God who has the final say if a person is going to find someone or not. The right person.

That’s what I believe, anyways.
 
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Oh… That changes things significantly. Still, good luck.
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on_the_hill:
You are joking, right? A man who’s interested in teenage girls is a creep, at best.
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You heard it here first folks. A man who is interested in a sexually mature woman is a creep, at best. This presumably includes Joseph.
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An adult man who’s interested in adolescent girls, regardless of their sexual maturity, is a creep. I’m sure the Church would agree that pedophilia is a disorder. Presumably including Judge Roy Moore and Dr. Larry Nassar.
 
I don’t understand why you wouldn’t say you’re asexual from the start. The advice given would probably have been better tailored to you.
 
Pedophilia is a word with actual meaning, and that meaning doesn’t include attraction to sexually mature adults.
 
So at age 21, women’s fertility disappears? And all men everywhere are revolted by the sight and prospect of marrying women one minute over age 20? Because of “biological concerns”?

I think I’ll believe actual fertility facts and marriage statistics instead.
 
I would find it creapy if a man would be mainly interested in my fertility. I´m not a chicken on a farm. And no, it´s not over with 25++.
 
I don’t consider a sexually mature 16, 17, 18 or even 19 year old an adult. The law says an 18 year old is an adult, but our better nature tells us that a man in his 20s, 30s, or beyond ought not pursue relationships with teenagers.

Of course, someone will come back with the argument, “What about 21 year old college seniors dating 18 year old freshmen?” I answer, “There’s a distinction to make between a 21, 22 year old college guy and a 25, 26 year old college guy.”
 
I think it means they’re only looking for guys with whiskers- fair amount of facial hair, in other words. All the rest, they will just throw back.
 
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on_the_hill said:
You are joking, right? A man who’s interested in teenage girls is a creep, at best. And to regard women’s fertility as “precious and perishable” is over-the-top.

Really?
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Odd isn’t that almost every super model, bikini, model, playboy model (etc) seem to look between the ages of 16-22. And this seems to exist across cultures across the globe. Guess we are a world of creeps.

Just googled it and the sweet spot to get in the trade is 16-18, that’s the age the industry is looking for. Do you think the industry is out of touch with their audience?
 
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Most men I know don´t consider those really young catwalk girls attractive. Too young, and size 0 is not attractive for most men, too. 21 ist something totally different than 16, I think, and then it depends on the man´s age - when he´s 18 and she´s 16 and they are living in, say, Pakistan, this is absolutely not creepy and in the cultural norm - but even there is a discussion about the ideal age for marriage alive.
A man who is a way older, in wester culture, and interested in a 16 year old is creepy for me, because most men in this case seek instable and flexible young women, not an equal partner in marriage. And no, biology don´t tell us to get pregnant with 16, but in our twenties - maturity, also physical, is not reached with 16.
 
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It’s when someone lures a person into a relationship with a fake online persona.
 
I think those model turn heads but I don’t think that equates to most men chasing them. Most men live in the real world.

I also don’t think most men will flaunt what they are attracted to with the very real (not airbrushed) women in their lives.

Sometime in college they realized it wasn’t cool to keep those pin-up posters. But increased maturity doesn’t completely change what will grab the eye, that’s why magazines select the models they use.

All that said, I too think it’s culturally creepy for older men to have young trophy wives. It’s hardly uncommon though for the wealthy single male. I’d say it’s common but not socially desirable.
 
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Not necessary. I know enough men who won´t be shy to say that, because they don´t recognize those catwalk models that much - but the models who are seen single in photoshoots or in the bikini/dessous section are mostly older than 16. They didn´t start with this often because of legal terms, and we don´t need to discuss which kind of modeling is most impressive in a sexual way - it´s not the fall/winter show of versace.
I agree that it´s not desirable. I don´t adress this to couples in real love with huge age difference, but to the trophy thing. We also have creepy views on what it sexy for women n general, I think.
 
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Pedophilia is a word with actual meaning, and that meaning doesn’t include attraction to sexually mature adults.
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This is correct. There is a separate word to describe attraction to sexually mature adolescents below the age of consent: epebophilia.

If you are saying “pedophilia” to describe attraction to a teenager, you are not using the right word. However, I admit that it does appear much more damning, not to mention easier to say than “epebophilia”, and in today’s anything goes environment when it comes to accusations, it’s an easy, convenient and very well known label to reach for.

So to say someone like Judge Moore was a pedophile, that is inaccurate. To say he was an epebophile is a better description of his behavior.

In light of today’s environment, I must add this too: before some poster(s) here go medieval on me, none of the foregoing is meant to say that I condone sex with those under the age of consent. Because I don’t. So don’t be putting words in my mouth.
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I’ve been working 50 hours a week. I gave up on love. The truth is I’m asexual. So it’s hard to find an asexual man. Thanks
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Now that sheds a new light on her issues with finding someone. Most men have sex drives, that is all there is to it; she is not going to be attracted to these men. Men who have low to no sex drives do exist in her appropriate age range, but they’re going to be few and far between because it is just not normal at that age. Good luck is all I can say.
 
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Maybe a photo copied from the internet or a real one but it’s from 10 years ago.
 
I’ve run into fake photos, but I have found that old photos are more common. I can remember one of the few times I succeeded in getting a date online: this particular lady was 4 years younger than me according to her profile. In real life, I’d eat the candles on her last birthday cake if she was less than 15 years older. That was the most blatant, but I remember others whose pictures were taken anywhere from 25 to 60 pounds ago.

To be fair, I’m sure there are guys who do it too, shave a few years, add a few inches in height, etc. Anything for a perceived edge.
 
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