Who will you be supporting in the U.S. presidential election with our Catholic values in mind?

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Back in the “bad old days” before “choice”, women who got pregnant could go to birthing homes and stay until the baby was born. The child was given up for adoption and the woman returned to her former life without anybody knowing.

There was a time, then, when Catholic adoption agencies were numerous and thriving because of that.
 
Back in the “bad old days” before “choice”, women who got pregnant could go to birthing homes and stay until the baby was born. The child was given up for adoption and the woman returned to her former life without anybody knowing.

There was a time, then, when Catholic adoption agencies were numerous and thriving because of that.
I don’t actually think that requiring unmarried parents to give up their children and pretend they were never pregnant is necessarily a good thing. It is not true that no one ever knows. The parents know, and they grieve. God bless adoptive parents who are willing to raise another parent’s child as their own, but better that it be because the parents decide that the possibility of raising their own child is not in the child’s best interest, rather than automatically having to give the child up to avoid shame. Fear of shame is a terrible reason to have to give up one’s beloved child.
 
I don’t actually think that requiring unmarried parents to give up their children and pretend they were never pregnant is necessarily a good thing. It is not true that no one ever knows. The parents know, and they grieve. God bless adoptive parents who are willing to raise another parent’s child as their own, but better that it be because the parents decide that the possibility of raising their own child is not in the child’s best interest, rather than automatically having to give the child up to avoid shame. Fear of shame is a terrible reason to have to give up one’s beloved child.
Sure. But at least the child lived. Killing it cannot be regarded as a better outcome.
 
Back in the “bad old days” before “choice”, women who got pregnant could go to birthing homes and stay until the baby was born. The child was given up for adoption and the woman returned to her former life without anybody knowing.

There was a time, then, when Catholic adoption agencies were numerous and thriving because of that.
I wonder why those birthing homes are not as available now? There is no reason that the agency providing the home, whether it be a Church-sponsored agency or some other charity, has to be the adoption agency as well. I’m sure that whoever provides these women a home could easily make arrangements for another adoption agency to take the babies. One might argue that the Church does not want to turn over babies to an adoption agency that might place the babies with a same-sex couple or something else the Church cannot condone, but isn’t that better than having the babies die?
 
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I think Trump is fairly typical when it comes to narcissism. Most people are pretty narcissistic, they just don’t admit it. Trump admits it.
“In my great and unmatched wisdom”. He is a “great looking and stable genius”. His “IQ is one of the highest”. He “has the worlds greatest memory” . I do not think many of us think this way.
I’m not sure his behavior with women is much different from that of most people.
Most people do not brag about the stuff that Trump did on the Billy Bush tape.

I know a lot of people who voted for Trump, a lot of people I think are very good people. There are logical reasons for doing so. But lets at least be honest and admit the man is a complete narcissistic cad. He is also prone to lying.
 
“In my great and unmatched wisdom”. He is a “great looking and stable genius”. His “IQ is one of the highest”. He “has the worlds greatest memory” . I do not think many of us think this way.
Maybe I know more vain people than you do. I know a lot of professionals and business leaders and the narcissism is breathtaking at times. Trump simply says out loud what others show by their actions.
Most people do not brag about the stuff that Trump did on the Billy Bush tape.
Trump didn’t actually say he did any of that stuff on the Billy Bush tape. He was making fun of groupies and said one 'could" grab them, and so on.
But lets at least be honest and admit the man is a complete narcissistic cad. He is also prone to lying.
He can be a cad and sometimes acts the part. I do not grant that he is a “complete narcissist”. True complete narcissists rarely accomplish much of anything in life, though lots of people have some degree of narcissism. And he is certainly not a cad all the time. I can easily think of worse things other politicians have exhibited and done. Doesn’t mean any of them are ok.
 
38% (almost 40%) of electorate would consider 3rd party, I’m also hearing that H. Ross Perot did not enter the race in 1992 until April of 1992. So, we will see. I think one of his mainstays was against NAFTA.


I’ve liked the President on most things, I don’t approve of the handling of Syria in the past month; nor am I fully set on his treatment of Nato.

You don’t abandon allies, I hope we are mending ties. What if this happens again? And we need allies and they don’t trust us? I’ve supported the president, but some supporters are extreme in their support I guess, to put it politely. I don’t need to go that far.
 
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I wonder why those birthing homes are not as available now?
In numbers, probably because of abortion and women keeping their babies themselves in combination.
I see. Then I misunderstood your post. When you said “Back in the “bad old days” before “choice”, women who got pregnant could go to birthing homes” I assumed you were implying that today they cannot do that. But from what you are telling me now, they no longer do that because they don’t want to do that. In that case your post would have been clearer had you said “Back in the “bad old days” before “choice”, women who got pregnant would go to birthing homes.” OK, I got it now.
 
Many or most of those home no longer exist. They couldn’t go there if they wanted to. And the Dems, of course, are driving out the last few by requiring that they adopt children out to homosexual couples.
 
Many or most of those home no longer exist. They couldn’t go there if they wanted to. And the Dems, of course, are driving out the last few by requiring that they adopt children out to homosexual couples.
Now wait a minute. This is a totally different answer from what you gave before. When I first asked why these birthing homes were not as common, you said it was because women were choosing abortion instead, or were keeping their babies. That implied the homes declined because of a decline in a demand for them. But now you are saying the reason for the decline was something quite different. You are saying the Dems are driving them out by requiring that adoption agencies adopt out children to homosexual couples. But that was the answer I anticipated in my first response. I said that the birthing homes need not function as adoption agencies too. They can just be birthing homes. They can easily make arrangements with a secular adoption agency to take the babies after they are born. Or perhaps when the women go the hospital to give birth, the hospital can take care of contacting an adoption agency. So the Catholic birthing home need not do any adoption placement at all. And anticipating that you might say the Catholic birthing homes don’t want to give babies to any secular adoption agency, I said “Isn’t it better than having the babies killed by abortion?” If the presence of these homes might be a deterrent to abortion, isn’t it better to deter abortion than to fail to provide that deterrent?
 
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He just wants to reduce legal immigration and attempt to deny it to those who do not have money
 
Chronic or clinical narcissists have an advantage which I zero capacity for empathy. Which Trump has confirmed every day of his presidency
 
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It will be Trump versus some pro-abortion candidate, so this isn’t a difficult decision…
 
Sure. But at least the child lived. Killing it cannot be regarded as a better outcome.
I was thinking of a relative who has kept her child and raised him, because shame didn’t keep her from doing it, and another relative who gave up her first born, married the father of that child and had a family that was always missing its oldest child. Shaming didn’t just lead people to give up children they would have kept and parented themselves. It also leads to abortions, especially in places where the shaming can realistically go to life-threatening lengths.
 
It will be Trump versus some pro-abortion candidate, so this isn’t a difficult decision…
That’s the most likely outcome because there will be no Republican primary, due to the GOP embracing the kind of rigged set-up that was criticized when it was Democrats doing it. (Actually, to my mind this is even worse than packing the nominating convention with unelected super delegates.)

It does make it a difficult decision. Last time I wrote someone in because both candidates were totally unacceptable. I expect to have to do it again.
 
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