You whole take is to bash through doctrine. Of course, you are a former mormon and so it is important for you to justify your decision and using dogma is one way to do it. …
How many catholics have shown me kindness on this thread or on the other mormon threads? None. Zero. And that shows me that these catholics are far from their faith.
In fact, I have behaved more catholic than the catholic dogmatists on these threads.
This comment was addressed to Religio71 who is a former Mormon, but I am commenting on it since i have been following this thread.
This is a place where people discuss doctrine. Maybe you think doctrine doesn’t matter? Perhaps when you say you are Catholic and then vigorously defend Mormon doctrine and particularly when you defend highly offensive past Mormon practices, and when you are the faithful unwavering aoplogist for that scoundrel Smith, people here get frustrated. They very reasonably refute wrong and untruthful things you stand behind -
because truth matters! - and try to understand where you are coming from - and yet all best efforts are for naught? And perhaps you take that frustration with your illogical unreasonable stance personally?
Because it is illogical. But this thread has been useful because the answer is out, IMO: I think you feel that to stand by your good daughters you need to stand by Mormonism, and by Joseph Smith - - polygamy and polyamory and statutory rape and all. Its an emotional position rooted in the powerful core of motherhood, and logical argument gets nowhere.
Its not fair to say people here have not been kind. People have been kind to you, understanding and patient. That people say *GAH! *and want to throw in the towel after no true point, painstakingly explained, is validated, does not invalidate all the times they were kind and patient.
There is something I’ve seen repeat itself in these Mormon threads. In the course of a deep discussion where no point of truth, no matter how carefully framed, is acknowledged, impatience is provoked. Then immediately the ‘Provoker’ invokes righteous pleasantness to the ‘Provoked’. A kind of a “How nice to communicate with you. See, I’m calm and you’re so mad; I’m more Christian. What are you mad for, anyway. Be at peace like me, a Mormon. Have a nice day now!”
I’m not pinning this on you, WhyMe. I just thought this would be a good place to bring up that observation.