Well; yes, this is true. I can see that you try hard not to “insult individuals.” Some of us Adventists have tried the same type of reasoning to try to explain that we are attacking a belief system, and not people, and we have had some (shall I call it bitter remarks) hurled at us. It’s too bad that there is such discordant relations in so many cases. Catholics and Protestants could get along a lot better if they really wanted to - (I think).
I recall during my nursing days when I was in training; a dear old Catholic Nun was my clinical instructor during a term I did some practicum at a local Catholic hospital. On my last day there; I went to see her in her office, and I just said: “You have been a great inspiration to me; and I will try to treat every patient the way I see you treat them. It’s like every time you are with a patient; Jesus is there. Every time.” And at this, she burst into tears, realizing how ever-present the Savior was in her ministry at this hospital. I then asked her if I could pray with her as we parted ways, and through the tears, we both managed to squeak out a few words to God.
Adventists have taught me to look for Jesus, like this, in not only Catholics, but all other faith backgrounds too. It’s amazing what can happen when we all have the attitude that “we would see Jesus.” (John 12:21)
If He is there, we will always see Him:
Always There
There is no night, however dark
That never ends in dawn
There is no snow, however white
That stays when winters gone.
There is no barrier too high
To intercept my prayer
And there is no place I’ll be alone
For God is always there.
Let us remember that God is always there when we are discussing our disagreements; and maybe it will help us to also share our blessings.