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Peeps, im very sorry, but I have to say that I find the above really, incredibly offensive.Rubee:
I can understand and agree with what you have said about adapting to meet culture–although I personally find it hypocritical.Why woulf that irritate you?
Speaking a different language is one thing–of course people who are not from the U.S. will love the opportunity to speak their heart language when they meet nationals from their home country.
But behaving differently around people who are different from you–I simply have a hard time with that.
I value genuineness.
People who are mixed race often have to straddle two different sets of culture and adapt their interaction styles accordingly. That is not them being ‘hypocritical’ or not ‘genuine’, that is them being a direct product of a mix of two different cultures with different speech or behaviour patterns.
As a mixed race person who has two very culturally different families, the insinuation that being naturally adaptive to those different social norms, is somehow duplicitous, is so derogatory.
Perhaps you don’t mean it to be so, but I think you really need to reflect on what you are implying here.