I based my post on 31 years on the front lines. Badge and gun. Being stereotyped and judged because I was white .
Yes, and you got it because you are a male, too, and it started sooner…you’re one of the kids in the class most likely to get in a fight on the playground, most likely to grow up and commit assault against your partner when you grow up, and so on. If a teacher was unfair to you because you were a boy, is it any excuse that the teacher has had most of her problems from the boys in her class?
What would you think if you tried to talk to a teacher about how she was treating you unfairly, and she wanted to talk about how much trouble she has had from the boys in her class over the years, how they are the biggest threat to themselves and everyone else? How does that response strike you?
Did those stereotypes about male students–about “what boys are like”–ever affect you? Do you get it, since that is the stereotype you’ve faced your entire life? Do you get that unfair treatment you have gotten is the reason you ought to be
more sensitive what a steady diet of unfair treatment does to people, and not less?
The protests have to do with the conduct of
people in authority. We don’t judge teachers and their attitudes with the attitudes of children as a yardstick. We don’t judge the professional standards of doctors on what patients do. The conduct of priests is expected to be different than the standard set by the average person in the pew. Professionals and people in a position of trust and authority are always held to a higher standard. They have to be.
Things may be different where you are, but where I am to be non-white is to be seen and treated differently than if you are white, and it starts in childhood. It includes people in authority. It includes being more likely to get detention at school, more likely to be pulled over, more likely to be judged as “not belonging” where you are and more likely to be thought to be “up to something” rather than having made a mistake.
This is the kind of thing that happens where I live. I don’t think it surprised anybody:
The police did just fine, by the way…