Rich, be still my beating heart, we agree! As a convert who has as friends several cradle Catholics, I understand that in practice and acceptance of the Church’s teachings, there are differences. My dear friend was born, raised, schooled, and was first married in the Church. She hasn’t been to Mass in years. She is thrice divorced and didn’t receive annulments. She believes in abortion, gay marriage and thinks women should be priests

But I believe that she is still a Catholic (maybe I am wrong if somehow she has automatically excommunicated herself ?). OTOH even she wouldn’t claim to be a faithful practicing Catholic.
What does REALLY irk me are those like Nancy Pelosi and Kathleen Sebelius who are so public with their heresy. What do we call them? Maybe like Jews we need terms such as Orthodox…
I think Biden in his heart of hearts is more in alignment with the Church than he claims in public. I heard that he was against the HHS Mandate but his original position has flipped. Sadly I think his political career is his real god.
Lisa