This is awesome! Finally! someone who uses real scripture in a challenging way. Justin_Mary this is a great passage. I would like to give you my take on it.
If you connect this passage with Matthew 8:5-13 where Jesus had just healed the Centurion’s servant after the man said, Only say the word and my servant will be healed. Jesus responded with insight. he said, “I have not found such great faith, not even in Israel… many will come from the east and west, and shall sit down with Abraham, and Isaac, and Jacob, in the kingdom of heaven, v12 But the CHILDREN of the kingdom shall be cast out into outer darkness (Lit. darkness outside) there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.” Mt. 8
Some of God’s children will be reclining at the table in the kingdom of God, while other Children of God will be thrown outside in the dark. They will wale and gnash their teeth. Outside in the dark should be understood in the metaphor. Jerusalem’s streets would be pitch black at night when weddings were performed.
I believe this passage along with the one you just sighted is a depiction of the Marriage supper of the Lamb. The marriage supper of the Lamb is a special supper for the faithful sons and daughters of God. The “friend of God” (in your text) wondered into the supper without the correct wedding clothes, just as the children of God were not permitted to recline at the table of the Lord in Mt. 8.
Neither of them deserved to be there. why? There is a class of failing christian who though they entered the kingdom, because of the free gift of eternal life,… they were not invited to the wedding. Why? The wedding banquet will be filled with the many worthys of the faith. People who have great faith like Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. and also the Centurion and the women who told Jesus she would eat the crumbs that fall from the Masters table.
But other children of God didn’t prepare by living out the righteousness of Christ. Rev. 19:8 says it like this: “And to her it was granted to be arrayed in fine linen, clean and bright, for the fine linen is the righteous acts of the saints.” Obedient Christians who leave houses and lands and fathers and mothers for the kingdom sake, will all be present at the marriage supper of the lamb. But not all of God’s children will be there. Some of them will be glaring in from outside in the dark. the reality of their failed life will hit them like a brick. They will be angry like those who were stoning Steven in Acts.